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Why You Are Exactly Where You Need to Be

Life fascinates.

Ego wants to be somewhere else. The grass seems greener there. Or at least the grass does not seem to be a stinking, festering mess. But you are exactly where you need to be right now because all unfolds at the perfect place in the perfect time.

Precision rules. Everything unfolds in precise, surgical fashion. Ego is the only impediment to this truth because ego clouds reality into illusion with its fear, judgments, goods and bads and all that projection jazz. Point blank; where you are now is specifically where you need to be to see where you are at and to see your mind as it truly is.

Let me give you an example.


Most human beings believe that 2020 is exactly where they DO NOT need to be. Human beings believe 2020 needs to end already because most humans bury fears, do things mostly though ego and blame an inanimate object known as a calendar and the illusion of time for their:

  • fears
  • pains
  • struggles
  • suffering
  • grief

2020 is clearly where humanity needs to be now to face, feel and clear fears triggered in our collective consciousness. 2020 appears to scare humanity because most humans have not faced, felt and released fears accumulated from birth until now.

2020 is exactly where humanity needs to be right now because this is the perfect place and perfect time for triggering, facing, feeling and releasing deep collective fears manifest as:

  • racism
  • sexism
  • wars
  • political infighting
  • seeing self as “less than”, triggering states of mind like taking offense, judging and lashing out at fellow human beings
  • over-dependence on big pharma to overcompensate for self-neglect of health and wellness
  • over-dependence on health care to overcompensate for self-neglect of health and wellness

Each of the above issues seemed to be swept under the rug for years, decades or even hundreds of years. Right now you and I observe world events on macro and micro levels forcing human beings to face, feel and release fears that have caused many problems for humanity for centuries, in some cases.

Do you see the surgical-like precision of the Universe right now, amid the panic and terror of human beings who are GENUINELY facing, feeling and releasing fears for perhaps the first time in their lives?

Now Is Where You Need to Be

You and I need to be where we are right now to see ourselves clearly and to fully understand who we are and how we see the world right now.

I write these words while eating a bowl of delicious, organic baked beans, right now. I need to be of service to you while being of service to myself – by caring for my health – right now. Little fears arise in mind as I write these words like:

  • I am way behind schedule because I only completed so much work at 1:30 PM on a Sunday
  • I still need to get in 90 minutes of cardio and 90 minutes of deep yin yoga today
  • Will I have enough time to complete my blogging work?

I need to face, observe, feel and release these fears right now to liberate myself from the fears, to free myself, to grow, to evolve and to be of greater service to you. Imagine if I cowered to the fears, crawled into bed, formed a ball and refused to face the world for the next 48 hours? Then, THAT would be where I needed to be right now because the Universe proceeds with surgical precision, putting us where we need to be to learn about ourselves and the world around us.

Trade complaining about now to expressing gratitude for now.

You are exactly where you need to be right now to observe your mind as it really is.

Ryan Biddulph

Ryan Biddulph inspires you with courses, 100 plus eBooks, audio books and his blog at Blogging From Paradise.