Bullshit! You aren't owed anything!
What the hell is that??? I've done jobs that I didn't want to do in order to make ends meet. I've been on my own since getting out of high school, and I've survived. Suck it up and start flipping some burgers or digging some holes if you want off the street dude!!!
Start where you're at and then you can start working towards your dreams!
If you want something in life, go get it.
Stop looking around for handouts, be willing to put in the effort, yes you've got to *gasp* WORK at it! Take a look at where you want to be in 5 years and ask yourself if the things you are doing today are going to get you there. If not it's time to make a change. Start small, it's easier to make small changes stick and many small changes add up to huge changes over time.
The most successful people are successful not because they've never had a setback in life. They are successful because every time they get knocked down, they dust themselves off, spend a little time figuring out why they got knocked down, and then move on down the path. So get out there, take a realistic look at where you are and where you want to be, and take a step in the right direction!